It’s just Tuesday. No one ever cares about Tuesday, really. As far as the week goes, Tuesday is pretty much a wash, a blip, a get-through day. It doesn’t have the pain of Monday, the snark of Wednesday, the fake college-student-created-night-off of Thursday, the long-awaited smooth of Friday or the relaxing dream that is the […]
Tuesdays…
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What’s better than an Elf on the Shelf? Traditions from the heart.
When the hugely popular Elf on the Shelf hit the, er, shelves all those years ago, my kids started bugging me to get one for our house. I was — and have remained — firm in my refusal. Hey, I have no problem with YOU having one. Go for it! It’s just…well, the rosy-cheeked critter isn’t […]
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My dad died. And I’m still waiting to cry for real.
I didn’t cry very much at the funeral. I didn’t cry very much in the days before, either, but that was due to busyness. There were plans to make, flowers to choose, a Mass to plan, a scurry to find an organist to replace the one the church has a contract with but I haven’t […]
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This was the Summer Dad Died, and it’s over.
Tomorrow school starts and no matter the official calendar, summer is over. It wasn’t the best summer for me, for my siblings, my mom, my family. Not by a long shot. Not in the vicinity of any kind of long shot. But summer happened, and I have four kids, and despite the awfulness that will […]
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On advocating for early cancer detection — no matter what your trusted doctor says. SPEAK. UP.
I was just thinking about all the people in the last year, all of these loved ones who died very shortly after abrupt end-stage cancer diagnoses. It has been awful. Not a single cancer was a so-called “lifestyle cancer” (like lung, which too often is NOT from smoking). But many might have been treatable with earlier […]
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Summer Solution: The “I’m Bored” Jar and This Mom’s Attempt to Curb Her Kids’ Addiction to Electronics
I’ll admit it. In the past six months or so I became very slackish about monitoring my kids’ use of electronics. Chalk it up to the soul-crushing winter we had in the Boston area, when around 7 feet of snow was dumped on us in a few weeks’ time, maybe, the never-ending days with no […]
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Beyond Folklore — When a 13 Year Old Googles Family History
It never occurred to me that any of my kids would reach beyond family folklore to learn about their history, but I guess in this age of technology and immediacy it was inevitable. This past weekend, Mitzi Googled her great-grandfather, Tony Mottola, and printed out about 2 dozen pages of condolences and comments from a […]
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Back-to-school brings scissors, pencils, cliques, and other sharp things
It’s mid-August, finally, and many schools in our country are back in session. In my neck of the woods, however, we still have a month to go before that first bell. There are beaches to visit, day trips to take, ice cream to scoop, camp-outs to plan, and all kinds of lazy days spread before […]
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On Special Needs Advocacy, Diabetes, and Ignorance
Wow, I haven’t blogged in quite a while. So much has been going on that I haven’t kept up with it all. I’ve spent much of my time in the last couple of months helping my husband with his campaign for re-election our town’s School Committee, on which he served for the past six years. […]
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Don’t Repeal the Affordable Care Act! Lifesaving Medicine Should Not Depend on Wealth. (a plea to Republicans to choose lives over politics…)
Yesterday I picked up Mitzi at the end of an afternoon with friends. In the car, while she snapchatted, I was listening to NPR as they reported on the efforts by the President-elect and the Republican party to repeal the ACA. I didn’t know she was listening until we got home and she made me keep […]
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